by: Latoya Lewis
Every woman loves to feel wanted and love from her significant other and also loves the thought of comfort; unfortunately not all of us have this. They have a saying that goes women are from mars and men are from Venus well yes men are from a different planet but I don’t think that it is in the solar system at all because we are so different in many ways shapes sizes and forms. But the truth of the matter is that we require a lot from our mates and our spouses just as they do from us. For example when we make love we do it passionate and very memorable we like it to have meaning and then after we like to seal the passion with a warm kiss this is our way of saying thank you for being my significant other and caressing my soul. To top it off we curl up and fall asleep to the sounds of each other’s heartbeats.
However, some men don’t understand this method all they know is to stick it be rough with it take a shower and bounce or ask baby what you got to eat. No this is so unacceptable to us. Look ladies love is an emotion not something you say just to brighten up some ones day or to smooth something over so you can get some. Love is showing gratitude, respect, meaningless fights, and chemistry it is a boundaries it is romance passion and undying understanding for your mate or spouse. This means don’t leave your mate if he/she gets into a bind or something that they can’t handle or may seem stressful on your hands comfort her and make her feel secured and wanted that’s all she needs which leads to my other level of love and support though a woman’s eyes.
Some men are like barbarians they don’t realize that women are very emotional creators and that we may cry at times because the love from him was not desirable at the time or from watching a movie or simply just cause we want to shed a tear. But they just see it as us being cry babies; but all we want them to do is just take it slow like John Legend and let us feel like a woman a lady and their companion and also we need to realize that you have to want to be understood too some men love it when we play hard to get and others love when we get straight to the point.
We want to be understood in a womanly and not a single off the radio; unlike men we plan things and schedule. For instance he comes home from a hard days work and we plan a nice steam bath complete with massaging stones and candles and her behind you giving you a nice sponge bath now this is coming from a woman who knows her stuff on how to treat a man. So in conclusion ladies sit your significant other down or take him by the hand and have a talk with him allow him to that place in your heart where only you know but want to let him and relate relax and then the both of you can do some releasing. Remember brothers we want to be understood through our point of view so be gentle and under standing.
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Latoya Lewis is currently living in Philadelphia and is pursuing a BA in Criminal Justice at Temple University. In her spare time she enjoys playing the violin, painting, creating artistic designs and patterns, singing, and watching Football. If you would like to know more about Latoya please email her at: Latoyalp[@]aol.com
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