Blame Yourself for been Single, Not Him

The easiest way to avoid accepting responsibility for your current relationship misery is to blame someone else. Single women, especially over the age of 25 are notorious for blaming all their relationship problems on the opposite sex. To them, the reason why they are single for a substantial period of time is due to a shortage of good men or my favorite, “all guys are dogs”. Now, having heard those lines repeatedly during periodic conversations with single females over the past 10 years. I am now convinced that most of them are using those standard excuses to make sense of or justify not having a romantic partner.

The fact that a lot of single women use the same excuses is reason enough to assert that most of them are simply full of crap. Because any person with enough common sense would agree that sometimes we have to look at what we are doing wrong in order to solve certain issues. And the issue i think they have with regards to finding a partner is not necessarily due to a shortage of good men, but their inability to look at themselves and truthfully answer the question: “what am I doing wrong?”

But for them to be able to answer such a question means that they would have to drastically rethink their list of requirements and physiologically break themselves away from society’s definition of who or what a man should be like. Unfortunately, many wont be able to accomplish this due to their stubbornness, and inability to live and enjoy life as it relates to them minus reality television shows.

The average guy is in most cases not anything close to what is portrayed on television nor is he in a position to spend money wastefully. He typically works in a mediocre job and makes just enough money to pay bills, put food on his table and go out from time-to-time. But although he considers himself physiologically and spiritually relationship material. The average single female (in this day and age) wont give him the time of day, because he is unable to shower her with expensive gifts, scoffer her around town in his luxury vehicle or pay for a hot-air balloon ride on the first date. In fact, after paying living expenses, he might only be in the position to afford a trip to an inexpensive restaurant via the bus or train and MAYBE to the movie theater.